The listener question
“IS BDSM a healthy sexual activity? As a feminist I’m instantly turned off. How can this be a loving sexual dynamic?”
WHAT DID WE TALK ABOUT?
Can you be submissive and a feminist?
Where BDSM fits in with feminism and knowing ones self.
Patricia talks about her own role as a submissive in her relationship and what ingredients make it happy and successful.
Communication!
Keeping your relationship spicy!
What are the parts/stages of a BDSM scene? It is so much more than just the scene. And that is where the magic happens in the relationship, the experience and for the participant personally.
More about Patricia’s Birthday experience and after care.
“On the rack”… The rack described
And more!
YES, NO, MAYBE LISTS – Some options
http://selfservetoys.com/resourcecenter/favorite-yesnomaybe-lists-available-online/
Cycle of violence
http://www.sjsu.edu/spartansforsafety/healthyrelationships/overview/cycleofviolence/index.html